FOR THE WOMAN WHO’S READY FOR WHAT’S NEXT.
The WTF✱ Era is where women come to figure out what comes next—without pretending they already have the answer.
Real. Unfiltered. Alive.
Connected. Curious. Unapologetic.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You’ve spent years building the life you’re living. And now things are shifting—your body, your relationships, your career, your family, your friendships, your time.
You can be grateful for your life and still want something different.
You can love the people in it and still want more for yourself.
You can be wildly successful and still feel stuck.
You can have absolutely no fucking idea what comes next.
THE WTF✱ FRAMEWORK
Your career isn’t at the center. Your marriage isn’t at the center. Your kids aren’t at the center. You are.
EXPLORE YOUR ERA — TAKE THE PRIVATE QUESTIONNAIRE →
YOUWhat’s changing in my body—and how am I feeling in it?
EXPLORE ↘02Does the life I’m building still feel like mine?
EXPLORE ↘03How does life feel with my most important person?
EXPLORE ↘04Who needs me right now—and how am I managing what that asks of me?
EXPLORE ↘05Do I have friends I can lean on—and let loose with?
EXPLORE ↘06How am I feeling—and am I making time for myself?
EXPLORE ↘You don’t have to fix all six.
In fact, please don’t.
THE WHOLE IDEA
ONE PART OF YOUR LIFE
Your physical wellbeing includes hormonal changes, energy, strength, mobility, sleep, digestion, sexual wellbeing, and the comfort and confidence you feel in your body.
What feels good? What feels different? Consider what your body needs to help you feel well and participate more fully in the life you want.
IS THIS YOUR WTF✱ RIGHT NOW? →ONE PART OF YOUR LIFE
Purpose includes work, money, ambition, and your next chapter. It can also mean mentoring, volunteering, supporting a cause, or sharing what you know.
What gives you a sense of meaning now? You may want to grow, change direction, slow down, give back, or make room for something new.
IS THIS YOUR WTF✱ RIGHT NOW? →ONE PART OF YOUR LIFE
Love includes emotional closeness, affection, intimacy, communication, shared interests, and the ability to enjoy life together. When either of you faces a challenge, do you feel supported?
What feels good, difficult, or missing right now? If you’re not currently partnered, consider what you want from love. There is no single right way for a relationship to look.
IS THIS YOUR WTF✱ RIGHT NOW? →ONE PART OF YOUR LIFE
Family may mean supporting teens or young adults while helping aging parents. It can bring decisions about care, money, health, loss, and changing roles.
It can also bring complicated relationships and questions about boundaries. Think about the time, worry, and responsibility you’re carrying—and where you need support. Your wellbeing matters, too.
IS THIS YOUR WTF✱ RIGHT NOW? →ONE PART OF YOUR LIFE
This is about friends you can be yourself with: people you can call when life is hard, speak honestly with, and laugh or try something new with.
Friendships shift as life changes. Consider the closeness, support, and fun you have now—and whether other parts of life have crowded out the connection you want.
IS THIS YOUR WTF✱ RIGHT NOW? →ONE PART OF YOUR LIFE
Self includes your mental and emotional wellbeing, your interests, and the ways you care for yourself. Are you making room for what you enjoy, or curious about something new?
Rest, creativity, movement, spirituality, counseling, learning, and simple fun can all matter. What helps you feel cared for, and how much space does it have in your life right now?
IS THIS YOUR WTF✱ RIGHT NOW? →
WTF✱ CAUGHT IN THE MIDDLE
Real conversations for women in the middle of change. Watch current episodes on YouTube, with future episodes organized here by the six pillars.
Watch on YouTube →THE WTF✱ EDIT
Gratitude and desire can exist in the same life.
The quiet question underneath “Is this it?”
Belonging does not always happen by accident.
NOTES FROM THE WTF✱ EDIT
Stories, questions, tools, and the occasional truth you didn’t know you needed—sent by Alyssia.
THE WOMAN WHO GOES FIRST PROJECT
We’re collecting stories from women who realized “I don’t want to keep doing it this way”—and changed something.
What you learned was never meant to end with you.
Nominate yourself to be interviewed.
SELF-NOMINATE →Know someone whose story should be told?
NOMINATE HER →WAYS TO WORK WITH ALYSSIA
Ninety private minutes to get underneath the thing keeping you stuck and decide what comes next.
SCHEDULE YOUR DEEP DIVE →Choose your time securely through Calendly.Ongoing, personalized support for a significant transition—or the beginning of a much bigger era.
APPLY TO WORK WITH ALYSSIA →Women, change, possibility, leadership, reinvention, and the WTF✱ methodology.
INVITE ALYSSIA →FOUNDING INTEREST · COMING SOON
A personal coaching workspace for your next chapter. My WTF✱: $29/month. VIP: $63/month, including a monthly group call with Alyssia and member pricing on select events. Memberships are in development; checkout is not open yet.
My WTF✱ is a separate purpose-built coaching application for reflection, chosen priorities, accountability, and progress—not a CMS membership dashboard.
EXPLORE MY WTF✱ →IN DEVELOPMENT · COMING 2027
So you can decide what you want from it. Beautiful places. Small rooms. Real conversations. Nothing is on sale yet.
Intimate one-day experiences.
Destination retreats with room to think, move, laugh, connect, and imagine.
Future road experiences in real rooms with real women.
ABOUT ALYSSIA
I’m in an era, too.
I’ve spent decades helping people build businesses, make hard decisions, get unstuck, tell themselves the truth, and turn “I don’t know what to do” into a plan.
My kids grew up. My body changed. My marriage required work. My career evolved. I went no-contact with my mother. I finally accepted that I have ADHD and chose to treat it. I went deep into therapy and started examining relationships, identity, health, hormones, patterns, boundaries—and what I actually wanted the next part of my life to look like.
The skills I’d spent years using to help people change their businesses worked remarkably well when the thing you’re trying to change is your life.
I won’t pretend to have your answers. My job is to help you ask better questions, see what you can’t see from inside your own life, decide what you want—and figure out what comes next.
THE FREE WTF✱ ERA COMMUNITY
Women are talking about the stuff we’re all thinking about but don’t always say out loud. It’s free. It’s real. And the conversation has already started.
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